There are several thoughts that I had after reading this post.
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THOUGHT 1:
I'M NOT WORTHYYYYYY
.
Obviously.
But at the risk of sounding like I'm fishing for forced compliments, I'll move past the all-too-expected refutal of praise.
THOUGHT 2:
If this were true,
why am I chronically single?
No, seriously. Chronically so.
It's a well-known fact by those closest to me that the nearest thing I've had to a real adult relationship is a few awkward dates with boys I don't really like but attempt to please due to a chronic need for external approval.
If I were hot, this wouldn't be the case.
Right?
Soo.. where does that leave us?
Confused?
Why, yes. Thanks for asking.
Confused as to why, on the internet, a celeb male blogger may find me worthy of a blog feature on "hotness",
while in real life, I struggle with confronting that one semi-attractive bar tender at the place next to my work who most definitely thinks I'm super creepy and stare-y but at whom I continue to stare regardless.
Does internet hotness just =
long hair & high heels?
And what does "fashion" have to do with it?
Anything?
Or is it an ability to fearlessly own our own style that attracts the opposite sex?
Can confidence override any physical flaw (my hobbit fingers, alien pinky toe, etc, etc) or any act of sartorial strangeness (everything I've ever worn ever),
or are there certain external qualities that even the most outright showing of confidence can't override?
Are "hot" & "attractive"
even the same thing??
Cheers.
You are such a babe! And you should definitely talk to the bar tender at the place next to your work...not because you are hot but because you will blow his mind with your wit and charm :)
ReplyDeleteThe Koalafornian x
shew thats a tough one that us gals with "a personality" have to deal with. i struggled with that for a long time in a sea of cookie cutter sorostitutes (im allowed to use that term bc i was in sorority bahaha).......who all had no personalities or thoughts of their own. for some reason (most) guys can't handle goofy chicks but hold in there sister........it will happen......you are gorgeous and funny and talented and one day someone will be WORTHY of you :) ps thanks for making my night last night!
ReplyDeletebrooke @ tigers don't lose sleep
I can't help but think of the Man Repeller, especially seeing that you're from.... the middle of nowhere. Trust me, I speak from a similar nowhere. Literally had a guy tell me once that my looks were "intimidating" {cue eye roll}. Clearly, you're a triple threat - and not every guy can handle that. But don't despair. The only two tiny bits of advice I dare throw out there are 1) Get over your I'm-not-attractive complex {or at least pretend to} and venture out - i.e. talk to that bartender, and 2) Perhaps you're so intent on finding a relationship that it scares men off? Just a thought. XOXO
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you're the hottest damn blogger on the internet and all hail he for pointing it out!
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